However, I feel that if you still treasure your partner, you wouldn’t be asking this question. Instead, you should be asking yourself “How do I save this relationship that really matters to me?”

Once you become a couple, we tend to want to stick together all the time and do things together. However, every once in a while, I think it’s healthy to do things on your own or with friends. After all, although you’ve become one (sounds so cliche), you are still your own person. I used to not like it when my bf went out without me with his boys and I would want to control him and not let him do things. However, I reversed the roles and thought, what if he stopped me from going out with my girls?

Letting your partner have time to himself/herself and doing the things he/she likes does not make him/her love you less. In fact, I read from a book that when a guy goes on his boys-night-out, he’ll miss you and think of you because he’s without you. Now, isn’t that a good thing? =)